Lynn's Corner

What is happening in my life and observations on the world in which I live

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Debating

I have finished switching most of my website over to WordPress. The only thing not there is my blog.

 

OK, so that is not completely true. I do have a blog there. I have been actually posting all of my blog posts in two places. That seems like a waste of my time. So I am seriously debating deleting this blog and just keeping everything at lynnscorner.wordpress.com.

 

What is it that keeps me using this one? I know that my best friend gets the blogs sent directly to her email. I haven't figured out yet how to do that with WordPress.

Long Time No Post!

HI!!! Did you miss me? I missed you. I did, I did, oh yes I did! This last week without my computer about drove me insane. (I know, I know. Very short trip!) I did manage to write a review of a book I finished reading last week, as well as about 4 or 5 blog entries. Now on to the task of getting those all typed up. First, though, an update on what has been happening in the McMonigal household.

 

I had an appointment with the surgeon last week about my gall bladder. To my great surprise, he said that my gall bladder is perfectly normal, no reason to have it removed. I have mixed feelings on that. On the one hand, I am not looking forward to having more surgery, so hearing that my gall bladder is normal is a relief. At the same time, the pain is still there. Not knowing what is causing the pain is very annoying. I do have an appointment with a GI specialist on July 23. Again, nice that whatever is wrong is not so urgent that it has to be taking care of right now, but frustrating that I have to wait two months before finding an answer. At least I have learned how to manage the pain. I am making healthier choices when I eat, which is helping with getting my weight under control. I just would like to know what is wrong.

 

As frustrated as I have been to be without my computer for a week, I am so thankful that it was only my computer that I lost. There is a scorch mark in my carpet from the burning adapter cord. Had we not been right in here, we could have lost the house. The next day, I noticed that there is a burn mark on my 2 year old son's shoe. I don't even want to think about how my life would be different if I had a computer, but not my son.

 

My blog tour started this week. It's been going rather well. It is so much fun to be able to talk to new people about my work. I haven't sold any copies of Summertime yet, but I know I will! This Saturday, my parents are hosting a BBQ party for me (which reminds me, I have to make sure my friend is still going to make those Snickerdoodles for the party). My favorite ever teacher, Mrs. Niedzielski, called me last week. She is as excited as my parents are about my published books. She is hoping to be at the party this weekend. I really hope she can make it. I've kept in touch with her over the years, but I don't think I have actually seen her for almost 10 years. The last time I saw her was at my wedding. It will be good to see her again. Though I can't go by her suggestion that I call her Sue now. She will always be Mrs. N. to me!

 

Summertime was released on schedule. Next on my publishing schedule is The Ladies of Faith. Only "problem" is that I don't think I am going to self-publish it. I've wrestled with this for a long time. On the one hand, if I self-publish I have full creative control over the book. At the same time, if I can get it into a traditional publisher, the book can reach a larger audience. There is a lot in that book that I think God wants people to read. I am not looking for a larger audience for my own glory, but for His. If He doesn't want this picked up by a traditional publishing house, it won't be picked up. And I am OK with that. But the more I think and pray about it, the more I feel like God is leading me to at least try to go the more traditional route with this one. I recently came across a woman who is new to being an agent, but has experience in the accusation department of a Christian publishing house. So my goal with the book now is to get the synopsis written and sent to her. I appreciate any and all prayers for this. I am not praying that this agent jumps at the chance to represent me (though that would be wonderful!). Rather, my prayer is that God's will be done and that He helps me to accept His will and adjust my plans accordingly.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Books I Have Read In 2009

I just love to read. Most writers do. In fact, I can't say I have ever met one who does not like to read. My only problem is that I don't always remember what I have read or when I read it. I can often look at a book cover and know that I read it. If I liked it a lot, I recognize that. And if I didn't like it, I remember that, too. I decided that this year, I would start keeping track of the books that I read. That way, I know better what to recommend to others. Plus, I thought it would be awesome to see just how many books I really do read in a year!

So, here are the books I have read. My plan is to write at least a brief review of each. Not sure how soon I can do that, but it is my plan!!

January 2009

The Notebook Nicholas Sparks No Limits Michael Phelps A Hope and a Future Katrina Wampler The Side off Heaven Karen Kingsbury

February 2009

Storm Joyce A. Anthony

March 2009

A Time to Dance Karen Kingsbury A Time to Embrace Karen Kingsbury Beach Dreams Trish Perry Promo Paks Janet Elaine Smith Where Do I Go? Neta Jackson

April 2009

Priced to Move Ginny Aiken Fake Boyfriend Kate Bryan Above the Line Karen Kingsbury

May 2009

Loving Your Man Without Losing Your Mind Susie Davis The Green Teen Jenn Savadge

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

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Monday, May 11, 2009

Loving Your Man Without Losing Your Mind

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

I Corinthians 13:4-7, NIV

I love my husband. I don't understand the man, but I do love him. I love the way he provides for our family, the way he cares about us, and takes care of us when we are sick. I love that he supports my writing career and that he takes his place as the spiritual head of our family seriously. I don't understand why he gets cranky so easily and why when he is sick, he doesn't want me to know it. I don't understand why he thinks chasing a little dimpled ball around the grass, swinging at it with a metal stick is fun. And I really don't understand why he sometimes makes it so difficult to love him!

 

Love is patient and kind. It is not rude, not proud, not selfish. But nowhere does God's word say "love is easy" or "love is not difficult". In fact, about the only thing in life more difficult than loving a man is understanding one! It's enough to drive any woman insane.

 

Author Susie Davis, married to Will for over 20 years, understands this. In her book Loving Your Man Without Losing Your Mind, she takes a Biblical look at the differences in men and women. The message of this book? Keeping God first, understanding that we are different and then adapting ourselves to the differences—rather than forcing our husbands to adapt—are the keys to keeping sane and keeping the love alive.

 

My favorite part in this book was Chapter Eight, entitled "A Failure to Yield". One of the most confusing (and often annoying) scripture passages for women is found in Ephesians chapter five. Verses 7 and 8 say "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord: (NIV). Ms. Davis explains that the word submit has negative connotations in today's world, but this scripture is not saying women should do everything their husband's demand. Doing that will make a wife into a doormat. No, rather she says "submit" means "yield". We are to yield our hearts to Christ, and then yield them to our husbands. This is a way of working together, of making compromises for the sake of marital bliss and putting your husband's needs above your own.

 

Through reading this book, I learned a lot about myself and how to become the woman God intends for me to to. I would highly recommend the book for any woman wanting to keep her mind intact while giving her heart to her husband.

Saturday, May 09, 2009

Summertime Tour

My blog tour in support of SUMMERTIME starts on Saturday, May 23 with a chat with Joyce A. Anthony on her blog Books and Authors. The tour will continue through to the end of May. I will be celebrating the official launch of SUMMERTIME with a day-long party on Facebook! A list of prizes available at the launch party will be coming soon. I sure hope you have a chance to stop by!

 

Saturday, May 23 Books & Authors http://joyce-anthony.blogspot.com

Sunday, May 24 Books & Authors http://joyce-anthony.blogspot.com

Monday, May 25 Blue Attitude http://joycescarbrough.blogspot.com/

Tuesday, May 26 Fairy Ring http://www.freewebs.com/brynnacurry/

Wednesday, May 27 Meet AusJenny http://ausjenny.blogspot.com/

Thursday, May 28, The UnWriter http://unwriter1.wordpress.com/

Friday, May 29 Books & Authors http://joyce-anthony.blogspot.com/

Saturday, May 30 Books & Authors http://joyce-anthony.blogspot.com/

Monday, June 1 Embracing Destiny http://embracingdestiny.blogspot.com/

 

Ando don't forget the day-long Facebook Launch Party on Tuesday, May 26! Join the fun at http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/pages/Lynn-McMonigal/42256341475

Rainy Birthday

My baby is 2 years old. OK, so technically, he is 1 year, 364 days old. Still, his second birthday party is this afternoon. We planned a cookout for him, with hot dogs and chips—his favorites. Invited his aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents to celebrate with us.

 

And it looks like we are gonna be rained out. UGH! Michigan weather is so unpredictable.

 

I am more concerned, though, with who will come. For some reason, we don't much of a response for our children's birthday parties. My in laws will be here—the ones who are not in jail, anyway. No, I am not kidding. Laugh if you want. Half of my husband's siblings have prison records. The ones who don't enjoy spoiling our boys, so I know they are not likely to miss this party.

 

It's my family that disappoints me at birthday time. I don't care about the gifts. Heaven knows money is tight for us, and we sometimes don't take more than a card to a niece or nephew's birthday celebration. But we are still there to celebrate. That is what the party is about. Celebrating the life of the birthday child. Yes, my son sees my parents and even my sisters more often than he sees my husband's siblings. But does that mean his special day should be overlooked?

A Chat with Jo Linsdell

Once again, I am happy to have author Jo Linsdell visiting Lynn's Corner. I have had a great time getting to know Jo over the past few days. As a woman who has always dreamed about visiting Italy, learning about the country from a woman who lives there has been a lot of fun. I can't wait to log into her site and enjoy PROMO DAY with Jo this morning!

Lynn McMonigal: Jo, you went to Rome for a 3-day visit in 2001. What made you decide to stay?

Jo Linsdell: I actually had my money stolen in Paris on the way here and so got myself a job as a receptionist in a hostel on my third day in Rome. I'd only thought I'd stay for a few weeks at that point. The idea was to get together a little bit of money so that I could carry on my travels around Europe.

Weeks passed by quickly and before I knew it I'd been here for 6 months. At that point I realised that Rome had become my home and got an office job writing for the dental industry and rented an appartment.

Lynn: How is daily life in Italy different that daily life in the UK?

Jo: It's warmer for a start :) I don't know if it's the beautiful monuments everywhere you look or because there are more parks and green areas than in the UK, but sometimes I forget that Rome is a Capital city.

Italians also make more time in their days for relaxing. They work for a living but don't have the same live for work attitude that there is in the UK.

Lynn: Do you live in an area where you interact with a lot of tourists?

Jo: I live in Cinecittà, which is where the film and TV studios are. It's on the main metro line and so tourists often come here. It's less than a 10 minute ride to the Centre so I can easily get to interact with tourists.

Lynn: What has been the response to your book?

Jo: Fantastic! I couldn't be happier. I've had several great reviews published and have received quite a few emails from people interested in having a copy and knowing more about Italy.

I've also had lots of compliments on the cover design which I'm also proud of as I designed it myself. I took all the photo's myself too. I had the help of a graphic design friend, Burt Crismore, to give it the professional finishing touches.

Lynn: Do you have family in the UK? Is this book something they will be likely to use when they come visit?

Jo: Yes my family are all in the UK. They have already used it when they came to visit and said it made things a lot easier. My mum managed to shop without speaking English and had a great time doing it. She was so proud of herself :)

 

Lynn: What is your favorite Italian food? Can you make it or do you have to go out to get it?

Jo: Unfortunately I'm Celiac and so have to adapt most Italian food. I don't tend to eat out often but when I do I go to RomAntica as my husband works there and so I know I'm safe. I love cooking though so it's not a problem.

Carbonara is one of my favourite dishes. There are lots of good Italian restaurants who do great fish dishes. They have a very good selection of hams and cheeses here too.

Lynn: Describe your favorite place in Italy.

Jo: Piazza di Spagna is my favourite place as it's where I met my husband. In the evenings we would go there in large groups and play guitar and sing. It was big social point for young Italians and tourists. Everyone would just hang out, chatting and people watching. In the evenings it's lite up, giving it a very romantic atmosphere.

Lynn: Do you speak any other languages? Would you be interested in writing a similar book for a different language?

Jo: Although I studied both French and German at school I can't speak either.

It would be nice to turn it into a series of phrasebooks for all countries but I need to do a lot more studying before that can happen.

Lynn: Thank you, Jo!! Is there anything else you want people to know about you?

Jo: Thank you for having me. I'd just like to add that anyone who purchases a copy of Italian for Tourists Pocket Edition from Lulu.com on Saturday 9th May will get a free e-book of their choice from my collection by sending me proof of purchase to jo_bins@yahoo.com.

 

And don't forget about PROMO DAY, happening all day long today, May 9, 2009. Stop by http://jolinsdell.tripod.com/promoday/ to learn more about promoting your writing on line!

Friday, May 08, 2009

Jo Linsdell and PROMO DAY

Welcome to the second part of my interview with Jo Linsdell, author of Italian for Tourists: Pocket Edition. In addition to her book, Jo has been busy organizing PROMO DAY 2009. Set for Saturday, May 9, 2009, this is a day-long event for those in the writing industry. This sounds like a very interesting event. If you are a writer a reader or just curious, read on to learn more!

Lynn McMonigal: What can you tell me about PROMO DAY?

Jo Linsdell: PROMO DAY is a FREE online international event for people in the writing industry. A whole day dedicated to promoting, networking and learning.

Lynn: Where did the idea for PROMO DAY come from?

Jo: PROMO DAY came about because I was looking for opportunities to promote my books using the internet at little or no cost. After attending the Muse Online Writers Conference back in 2006, I searched the internet for similar events aimed at what to do after you've written the book and found none. I decided to fill the void and so PROMO DAY was born. PROMO DAY is a great opportunity to network with other members of the industry, take part in online workshops and promote and best of all it's FREE

Lynn: Is this the first time you have done an event like this? Do you plan to do it again?

Jo: This is actually the third time I do PROMO DAY. This is the first time it has online workshops though so it's a lot bigger this year than in the past editions.

It is a annual event taking place in May. People can sign up for the mailing list at http://jolinsdell.tripod.com/promoday to be kept up to date on information regarding this year's and future events.

Lynn: Will you be leading all of the workshops?

Jo: No each workshop is presented by different experts from the industry. These guys really know their stuff! They each have great tips and advice to share and attendees will have the opportunity to ask them questions during the workshops.

Lynn: What sort of Workshops will be available?

Jo: Workshops taking place during PROMO DAY 2009:

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14:00 Lael Johnson - Blogging and Journaling

15:00 John Evans - The Age of Networking: Tips and Tricks to Survive in Today's information Age

16:00 Karina Fabian - Marketing for Beginners

17:00 John Desjarlais - Finding an Agent

18:00 Carolyn Howard Johnson - Query Letters as Promotion: Let's Make Them Picture Perfect!

19:00 Elysabeth Eldering- Hosting Authors on Virtual Book Tours

20:00 Joyce Anthony - Promoting with Twitter

21:00 Ron Berry - Character websites

22:00 Devon Ellington - Creating and maintaining a successful writer's blog.

23:00 Carol Denbow - Technical Aspects

 

Lynn: Do participants need to preregister for the event?

Jo: No registration is necessary. Just turn up on the day and join in the fun!

Lynn: What sort of response have you had to this event?

Jo: This year's response has been huge. I'm really quite blown away by it all. The media attention has been greater than I ever imagined it could be. Publishers have been telling all their authors to go, people have been promoting in their newsletters, websites and blogs. My google alert has gone crazy!

Lynn: Is there anything else you want people to know about you, PROMO DAY, or your books?

Jo: Everyone is welcome to take part in PROMO DAY. Avid readers, writers, authors, publishers, editors, graphic designers, virtual assistants etc… Anyone with an interest in books and writing, from anywhere in the world. I look forward to seeing you all there.

I'd just like to add that anyone who purchases a copy of Italian for Tourists Pocket Edition from Lulu.com on Saturday 9th May will get a free e-book of their choice from my collection by sending me proof of purchase to jo_bins@yahoo.com.

Thursday, May 07, 2009

Author Jo Linsdell

I am pleased to have author Jo Linsdell visiting my blog this week! Jo has written the book Italian for Tourists: Pocket Edition. She is also the organizer of PROMO DAY, an international event for anyone in the writing industry. For the next few days, I will be sharing with you a little more about Jo, her books, and PROMO DAY.

Here is an interview with Jo, so you can get to know her better.

What's your personal background? I came to Rome Italy from the UK in June 2001. I originally came for 3 days but feel in love with the city and decided to stay. After all these years I'm still here, married to an Italian (with whom I have a son) and have no plans to leave any time soon.

Who is your intended readership? I created this book for tourists. There are a lot of phrasebooks out there but they all seem to want to give as much information as possible, a lot of it irrelevant to a tourist who just wants to get by for the couple of days or weeks that he's in Italy. This book is designed to be a basic guide to the Italian language covering phrases and words most needed by tourists.

Why did you write this book?

I came to Italy with the plan of staying for 3 days and figured I could get by for such a short stay using English. With this in mind I hadn't prepared for the fact that Italians might not speak English. In fact a lot of them don't or if they do it's very limited. I felt rude not being able to thank or greet people in Italian, after all I was in Italy. If an Italian came to England not being able to speak English how far would he get? I got myself a phrasebook to help me but a lot of the information was irrelevant and it took ages to find what I needed. I wrote this book bearing all this in mind. A tourist doesn't need to know everything about Italian grammar and the in's and out's of renting an apartment. They want to have an easy to use reference book of the language they will need to use and understand during their stay.

How did you research your book? I've been living here for 7 years now and from my own experience I know the sort s of things that are useful to know when you first come here. I also worked in hostels and as a tour guide and know what information people used to ask me for.

Other books by Jo Linsdell:

A Guide to Weddings in Italy, ISBN: 978-1-4092-4489-9 Italian for Tourists (1st Edition) INSIDE.OUT Il Dolce Natale: Christmastime in Italy Some risks are worth taking La Befana The Patron Saint of Lovers Free Promotional Techniques: Ways to market your books All are available for purchase from http://www.lulu.com/jolinsdell

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The Lord’s Prayer, 2009

Until recently, I had been really confused by The Lord's Prayer. This prayer is important enough that both Matthew and Luke talk about it. Both say, "This is how you should pray." Even in the NIV and the Living translations, this prayer has always sounded very "fancy". It is not me. I don't speak that way to my friends, and if I am to look at God as a friend, shouldn't I speak to Him the way I would Lori or Crystal?

 

Within the past couple of months, I read a novel where the character was studying the Lord's Prayer. She said something about it being a model of how to pray, by praising God first and asking for what you want next. Ever since then, I've been working through this, trying to pray that way in my own prayer life.

 

Today is the National Day of Prayer. It seems fitting, then, to post my "revised" Lord's Prayer. Now, I am not trying to rewrite the Bible in any way!! I just figure if I am having problems with applying this passage to my life others might be also. This is my prayer for my life, and for yours. God bless you in whatever He has in store for your life today.

 

Dear God, my father and friend, I praise your name. You are loving and wonderful, both in Heaven and here on Earth. I pray for Your will in my life, today and tomorrow. You have given me this day, and I know You alone will provide my needs. Thank You for that. Please forgive all the wrong I have done to You, to my family, to my friends, and to strangers, whether I know that I have done wrong or not. Help me to forgive those in my life who have done wrong to me. Lord, there are things all around me that are tempting to me, things I know You don't want me to do. Protect me from that today. Keep my eyes focused on you so that I think only of what You want for my life and I don't get sidetracked by what the world offers. Lord, You are the King of all. You deserve all my praise, today, tomorrow, and forever. Thank You just for being You, and for loving me even though I don't deserve it. In the name of Jesus, Amen.

Wednesday, May 06, 2009

Wordless Wednesday

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Tuesday, May 05, 2009

Uniquely Jackson

I’ve been researching one of my books. It is set in Jackson, Michigan, a town I should know well since I have lived in it for 30 years. But I don’t want to rely only on my own memories and ideas here. So I’ve asked some other Jackson natives “what places and things come to mind when you think of Jackson?” Here are the answers I’ve gotten so far. Cascades Falls These are absolutely beautiful! I don’t have a picture to share, but you can see the man-made waterfalls here http://jackson.mi.us/Parks/cascades.asp. The colors are beautiful, and often change according to the music that is being played. One of my favorite dates ever was to the Falls, with the man who is now my husband. I remember sitting there, watching the pulsating colors, and listening to the song “Kiss The Girl” from The Little Mermaid. He looked at me, smiled, and asked, “Is it OK if I take their advice?” The Parlour If you are looking for good ice cream, this is not the place for you. The Parlour is where you will find THE BEST ice cream around! Feeling really brave? Try a Dare To Be Great. Twenty-one scoops of assorted ice cream flavors, topped with hot fudge, caramel, strawberries, pineapples, marshmallow, mixed nuts, whipped cream and cherries. Finish it yourself in an hour and it is free! Yep, there is even a sign on the wall now, where all the names of those who have attempted and succeeded at this feat are engraved. And no, my name is not there! I much prefer to share with friends! Spring Arbor College/Univeristy For years, this school in Spring Arbor was known as a college. Within the last 10 years, it achieved university status. It was not a school I ever really considered attending. I wanted to be further away from home! Michigan Theater Beautiful old theater downtown. I can’t say that I remember first-run movies being shown here. In the spring and summer months, they have free family movies on the weekends. Not easy to get into, though. Everyone hears FREE and rushes in! Southern Michigan Prison When my parents first moved to Jackson, people assumed that Dad had done something terrible and was a guest of the State. Nope, they just wanted to start over here. The Prison is still one of the largest employers in the area. Of course, it seems every year Jennifer Granholm talks about closing all or part of the prison here, so that could change at any moment. “Jackson High is better than Lumen Christi” Oh, but I think I could get in trouble with this one!!! So you know, I didn’t say it—I only wrote down what someone else said. Of course, as a proud J-High graduate, I DO agree that my school is better than Christi. No matter how many times people are down on the public school system, I am pleased with the education I got there. Ella Sharp Park/Museum In the early 1900’s, Ella W. Sharp left over 500 acres of land to the City of Jackson. Today, that land is a public park housing a museum, golf course, pool, miniature golf course, softball diamonds, soccer fields, picnic areas, and much more. It is one of the most popular summer spots in the city. Jackson Pizza Factory I’d love to have some interesting, tasty tidbit to put here, but I can’t. I know where the Pizza Factory is. Grandma and Grandpa Kinney used to have a porcelain doll shop right across North Street from the Factory. But I am not sure that I have ever eaten there. Sad. Jacskon Coney Island I know I have eaten here before. My mother-in-law, God bless her, was never much of a cook. She ordered in from so many places that many had a standing order with her name on it. OK, so maybe that is a bit of an exaggeration. But she did order out a lot. My husband and I often went to pick up meals for her from Jackson Coney Island, which she sometimes referred to as “The Redneck Coney Island Place.” Food is AWESOME, though. Paka Plaza (now Jackson Crossing) It’s been, wow, near 20 years now since this chopping center was officially renamed Jackson Crossing. Still, a lot of people think of it as Paka Plaza. I used to laugh at my one sister for that. When she moved to Canada, it was Paka. When she came for a visit a few years later, it was The Crossing. When she comes to visit, she still calls it Paka. Hinkley’s This is both a good thing and a bad thing about Jackson. Good because the donuts are fresh and huge and oh-so-tasty. Bad because the donuts are fresh and huge and oh-so-tasty. And did I mention that Hinkley’s is just two block from my house? Walking outside on a Wednesday morning (they are closed Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday), the first thing I notice is the fresh-baked scent floating down the street from Hinkley’s. Let me tell you, that is not an easy smell to stomach when following the Weight Watchers plan! Can you think of anything else that is Uniquely Jackson? I’d be happy to add to the list! My goal is make Jackson really come alive in this book. Your help is appreciated!

Monday, May 04, 2009

Summertime Ministry Contest

    My books are my ministry. I can share of myself and share my faith through books in ways I could never do with just my voice alone.

 

    What is your ministry?

 

    Seriously. To celebrate the launch of my newest novel, Summertime (available May 26 at Amazon.com), I want to hear all about the summer ministries your church is involved in. Drama teams? Summer camp? Vacation Bible School? Head on over to my website, www.lynnmcmo.webs.com, and sign the guestbook. Leave the name and location of your church and what summer activities the members of the church enjoy together. One church will win autographed copies of Forsaking the Call and Summertime. Also, the person who leaves the winning comment will be able to choose one of the two books to receive for free!

 

    This contest will begin today, May 4, and run until May 26, the day that Summertime becomes available for sale. Remember, only comments in the guest book of the website count!!!

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Wordless Wednesy

OK, So I am supposed to post only a picture. Let's see if I can do this each week!! Comments welcome!!!